Just another Rant Post

Sometimes it is hard to understand that people are having a bad day or  they are in their normal ill humoured  mood or is it intentional for you! I have a problem with rude people especially if they are at service desk . I understand everything is very general for them because it is their everyday job and the person asking them questions seems stupid enough but  being rude and giving  him/her  angry looks  makes them  look even more incompetent for the job they are being hired for .

Today I went to local kiosk where you can buy your everyday stuff including magazines, newspapers and they also send your letters and posts. I asked the lady at the counter, I want to send a letter by registered post . Before I had uttered the words “by registered post” she had already put a local stamp on it and then she was angry  ” You have to tell me first! ” and I was half shocked,  blurted out  “ yes,  I told you ” . She then shook her head saying no , rolled her eyes up as if I am lying and said “Sending a letter means local post  and you should say Register ! You already had me waiting while I have other customers ” .

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The blood gushed to my face, I could feel nervousness in my hands while taking out coins, I quickly paid her and left . I could hear my heartbeats in my ears,  it didnt came back normal until 15 mins, nervousness in my hands for another 20 minutes and my mood for 30 mins ! That is what happens if you are hypersensitive, small little everyday things could trigger those anxieties and nervousness.  I suffered for an hour almost without any fault . With this hypersensitivity one is so prone to get hurt even with people who are complete strangers . You shatter a little everyday and then you gather yourself and stand up again. It is a everyday routine to watch yourself and protect from getting hurt but then it happens every now and then.

It is impossible to avoid such people in life, you meet them at every corner. The best thing you can do is divert your mind to something else immediately for example start checking phone , call some one, listen a song or say something to calm yourself down , a prayer.

 

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7 thoughts on “Just another Rant Post

  1. A writer from the East

    So sorry for this unpleasant experience, it is very hard to avoid such people as they are part of our daily lives. Sometimes I wonder if some one gave them a piece of their own medicine how would they react?

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