The not so funny side of being funny!

Hello Everyone ! I am hoping you are all doing fine in your lives and blogs 🙂 I was not so active on my blog because I didn’t have much to say. My talkative mind was sober these days with my new found hobby of painting, well not so new, painting for an year now. I am not a born artist, drawing a straight line without a scale/ruler is difficult for me but I am getting better at it, though I am good with colors, love to mix and match , I do much better at canvas , just throw in some random colors, put in my palette knife and try to bring out some abstract art, my every weekend game 🙂 Sounds fun isn’t it ?

Apart from it, I want to thank you all for following my blog and reading my posts for which I am truly grateful to Almighty that out there , are some souls reading  your thoughts , connecting and responding .

The reason for today’s post: There was always one topic I wanted to write about but I never did it , always kept it for later and I think the later has come . Humour .

Humour is good , it adds an extra spark to your personality , lits the surroundings and throws in roars of laughter and keeps life light. We need humour in our lives otherwise life is too boring but have we looked beyond that light hearted humour or evaluated the cost of that half a minute’s laugh, what is the price of it, Is it expensive ,where is it coming from , who is paying the cost ? There is a darker side to it, the evil sinister side, the bad face of our society which ward offs all bad and mean things to people in name of humour and I totally hate it!  Pick up any comedy show and you see our comedy is nothing but  a true reflection of who we are . I remember watching The Comedy Nights with Kapil Sharma which was nothing but making fun of people , saying mean things to them just in the name of humour.The only difference was his characters were fictitious but his jokes were taken from real life situations and later these were  reapplied by our young generation in their daily lives to create fun and jibes.

Is it really funny to make fun of somebody’s size and weight , their color or face, their failures or shortcomings ?

I think it is very important to lead a mindful life , to be aware of our actions and words and their impact on us and around us. Humour is good but we need to careful and watch what are we saying in name of fun . ‘ Just kidding‘ or ‘ just joking ‘ could be injurious to you and others as well. With this internet thing people are getting really creative to make memes and being funny , what if the same joke is done on you? Perhaps it could be a no issue with you, you play it game but  the other might be too sensitive. Someone might be struggling with weight issues, skin issues or has a height complex , someone trying to overcome his possible shortcomings and you might just rub it in.  As a human being it is our duty to live responsibly and take care of not hurting others.

A humble advice out to some cool guys out there : Stop being cool and playing a bully just in name of humour, don’t hide behind it, if you have guts say those things on a person’s face and allow him/her to smash your face.

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16 thoughts on “The not so funny side of being funny!

  1. Oh Sana. My friends put it in simple words. You don’t have to MAKE fun in order to HAVE fun.
    Mazaak kerna and mazaak uraana are two different things.
    I agree with you wholeheartedly..

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      1. Alhamdulillah. Alhamdulillah.
        I hope this Ramadan turns out the best for all of us.
        Tbh I think we all need it.
        May Allah bless it for you as well.
        Aameen. ❤
        May Allah always keep you guarded and healthy and happy. ❤

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  2. I skimmed through to look for the topic of your humour in excitement this time again, which I mostly expect from your blog posts. Hah. But, this turned out to be poles adrift; and better be it. I effortlessly agree with your profound opinion. Thank you for saying it.

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  3. I totally agree with you on this topic. Yes, as a human being it is our duty to live responsibly and take care of not hurting others. We shouldn’t make fun of people because we never know what they might be going through.
    I really love your humour here, “humble advice out to some cool guys out there : Stop being cool and playing a bully just in name of humour, don’t hide behind it, if you have guts say those things on a person’s face and allow him/her to smash your face.” Hahaa may be smash it like tomatoes or potatoes.
    I really like your blog, sister Sana. Thank you for also following my website and reading my posts for which I am truly grateful to Almighty that out there, some wonderful souls like you are reading my thoughts , connecting and responding .
    Ramadan Mubarak dear.

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    1. Thank you my Dear sister Sadaf! Your comment has made my day ☺, i too like your blog , keep growing and spreading the light ! N yes would love to smash few people’s faces like tomatoes haha..they should get their lessons!

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